HOW TO FLIRT WITH A GUY AT A PARTY
Flirting can be fun and exciting, but it can also be challenging. The best way to flirt with a guy is by doing it in a way that feels comfortable for both of you. By following these tips, you’ll know how to flirt with a guy at a party in a way that’s fun and not uncomfortable for either of you!
Know your audience.
Flirting is a delicate art, and it’s important to know what type of guy you’re flirting with. Some guys are more comfortable with sexual innuendo than others; some like their flirting done in person rather than online; some may even prefer a text message over an emoji-filled DM! So before you start throwing out suggestive comments or sending suggestive pictures of yourself (unless he asks for them), take some time to get to know who this person is and what makes him tick. This can help ensure that your flirtation goes smoothly–and keeps both parties feeling good about themselves afterward!
Flirt with him on his own terms.
- Be yourself.
- Don’t put on a show for him.
- Don’t try to be someone he’s not and vice versa.
If you need to compliment him, compliment him on something that’s authentic to him and not a generic compliment.
For example, if he has an amazing sense of humor, tell him so! If he’s the life of the party and always has everyone laughing with his jokes and stories, let him know that it makes your night better just being in his presence. But don’t just say things like “You’re so funny!” or “I love your laugh!” because those are both generic compliments that could be said by anyone at any time–and they don’t sound genuine when they come from someone else’s mouth (even if they DO mean them). Instead, try something like: “That was such a good joke! You should write down all of them; I’d buy them.” Or maybe even ask him questions about where he comes up with his ideas or where he learned them from–that way it shows interest in HIM instead of just saying something nice about himself while ignoring YOU altogether!
The best way to flirt with a guy is by not really flirting at all.
The best way to flirt with a guy is by not really flirting at all. By that, I mean you should be yourself and let him see the real you. You don’t have to pretend to be someone else in order for him to like you–he’ll love who you are!
If he asks about your life or what’s going on in it, share some stories with him! If he wants advice on something personal or professional, offer some insight into what has worked for you in similar situations before (but don’t try too hard). Most importantly: Be fun! When we’re having fun together, there’s no need for me-against-you gamesmanship; instead, we can just enjoy each other’s company as equals who are both trying our best not only at flirting but also at being grownups who know how friendships work (and how relationships start).
If you’re going to touch him, make sure it’s appropriate and casual.
- Touching can be a great way to flirt with a guy at a party, but it’s important that you do it in a natural and casual way.
- For example, if you’re sitting next to him on the couch and he puts his arm around you in an affectionate way, then that would be appropriate for touching him back (assuming he doesn’t have some kind of weird smell or body odor). It’s not like he just randomly put his arm around your shoulders because “I was bored”–it seems more genuine than that!
- If another dude walks over from across the room and starts talking to both of us about something funny he saw earlier today at work or whatever, don’t go out of your way by reaching over and putting your hand on top of theirs like “I’m here too!”. That just looks fake as hell!
You can flirt with a guy in a fun way without being wacky or uncomfortable about it
The best way to flirt with a guy at a party is to be yourself. Don’t try too hard and don’t be afraid of being silly or goofy, but don’t be too forward or aggressive either.
If you are standing next to each other in line at the bar, take the opportunity when he goes up for his drink (or if you’re ordering first) and say something like “Nice shirt!” This can lead into an easy conversation about why he chose that particular shirt or where he got it from–and then maybe ask him if he wants another one!
If there is food available at this event–and chances are there will be–you could offer him some of yours if it looks good enough for both of you! This works especially well if there’s only one piece left on your plate after taking several bites; just offer half without asking permission first because chances are good that by doing so would make them super uncomfortable otherwise!
So, if you’re looking to flirt with a guy at a party, remember to keep it fun and casual. The best way to do this is by not really flirting at all! If you need some inspiration on how to do this, check out our article on how to flirt with a guy without being wacky or uncomfortable about it.